Ah there is a reason not to be friends...

[. offline]

Ahhh yeah so this chica that I thought was into wasn't, to put it blunty and ended up going out with someone else. I was hurt, but I asked if we could still be friends.

Ah she tells me "Sure, theres no reason not to be."

Except for the fact it was dreadfully awkward and now she doesn't even say hello to me anymore. Frankly it pisses me off, I always say hello and goodbye to her she can't even give me that much? WTF?

Oh sure, we hang out with the same group of friends but thats about as close to becoming friends again as I think were gonna get because she simply doesn't want to be bothered.

>.> whatever I'm not gonna wate my times trying to be friends with someone who ignores me.

[Ransomed_Heart offline]

You have my sympathies, because I know how hard it is to be shunned by someone you like.

However, keep in mind that the situation may be just as awkward for her as you admitted it is for you. She probably doesn't know how to deal with the knowledge that you like(d) her. The best you can do at this point is just keep trying to be friends. Or pull her aside and talk to her about the fact that she is avoiding you like the plague. There is a way to be friends again, you just have to give it time.

[The BB of C offline]

It will take a little while for things to go back to normal as they were before all of this. Try saying hello to her instead. That will help things get back to normal.

[. offline]

It will take a little while for things to go back to normal as they were before all of this. Try saying hello to her instead. That will help things get back to normal.

Been doing that. It's not going to get back to normal with out some effort on her part, and she knows all I want is to be friends with her because I told her how it was.

[mooshie offline]

well it might seem like i'm just putting my rant on this but i don't believe in friends becasue too many people try to validate their existance by doing that so my belief is that if that they don't get down on bended knee and beg to be your friend (which they should) then it's just not worth the effort and besides if you have other friends than just think about people like me who have no friends at all and think of how much worse it could be

[Ransomed_Heart offline]

well it might seem like i'm just putting my rant on this but i don't believe in friends becasue too many people try to validate their existance by doing that so my belief is that if that they don't get down on bended knee and beg to be your friend (which they should) then it's just not worth the effort and besides if you have other friends than just think about people like me who have no friends at all and think of how much worse it could be

That may be the most selfish view on friendship I have ever seen. Friendship is mutual - It's not about begging to be someone's friend. If they have to beg for your friendship then you are the one who is not worth it, because they are putting theirself at your mercy, which is a completely dysfunctional friendship.

And Pepsi hon, don't worry. Just give it time and she will get used to you again. The awkwardness will pass, it always seems to.

[The BB of C offline]

Been doing that.

For how long?

[. offline]

Been doing that.

For how long?

'Bout a week or so.

[Demonkiller offline]

It doesn't matter how technical you get, there is no true reason why people shouldn't be friends. Try to walk in love, like I do. It makes life more fun if you can manage not to get mad.

[The BB of C offline]

Been doing that.

For how long?

'Bout a week or so.

I would say not enough time.

[. offline]

It doesn't matter how technical you get, there is no true reason why people shouldn't be friends. Try to walk in love, like I do. It makes life more fun if you can manage not to get mad.

I try, I just get bitter over certain things.

Ah let me save a cyber-tree and I'll rant here: Ya know, I have a great life that I know I'm lucky to live but, ya know, small little things really get to me. Like, ya know, I'm known for being a pretty nice kid and all but sometimes it just feels like I'm just a joke and all and that no one really loves or respects me. That they just mock me.

Also my chick problems, oh yes, thats a real drag. When you consistantly try and try again to just maybe a get a girl to like me. Yeah I know that sounds like Emo bull-crap, but it's like this. I don't want a girlfriend really, I just want to know that I'm crushed on by a girl thats all. I want to know that it's possible for me to be desired.

7 years of being alive and trying to make myself as desirable as possible and as far as my knowledge goes I'm still going unoticed. I hit on a girls, they end up passing me over for someone better. Ahhhhhh it's crazy. I swear to God I'm paraniod, I really turly am.

[Demonkiller offline]

No, my grandfather was paranoid. He thought catholics were spying on him because he knew too much. This is how he died, funny actually. He came home one day, and he wanted a banana, he noticed something different on the banana, and he thought the catholics were trying to poison him. He also wanted tea, on the top of the string, where that paper is, the print was upside-down. He thought that was a sign that the catholics did something to it. So he decides to get coffee instead. He opens up a new bottle of creamer, and the film was slightly torn. He thought the catholics did something to this too. Later, my aunt and cousin get home, and they find him dead in a chair at the kitchen table. There was a note next to him, that said:

"Dear (names of my aunt and cousin here),
Lungs filling with liquid, can't breathe. Check the bananas, tea bags, and creamer."

That's funny!! He didn't even bother calling 911 because he was worried that the catholics would kill him! Anyway, about the mocking thing, people do that. The people who mock others aren't true to them self's usually. Reply with this: "Your no better than I am. Everyone is equal, no matter what you do, so get over it!"

I won't say my views on that "Everyone is equal" statement, because then you won't say it.

[. offline]

O.o You didn't make that up did you?