She lied to me

[lyokodude offline]

Recently I have uncovered somrthing about Kimberly[see heart broken]. She has lied to me last night at an away game with my ball team, I asked my friend Ivan," How old is Kimberly?" he said 14, and I'm 13. How is THIs an age DIFFERENCE?

[Hidushikai offline]

Why is that a big deal???

[Stephen (x1)]

And what exactly is your problem? (Can't find the thread you mentioned.) Age shouldn't matter much.

[The BB of C offline]

I don't see a big deal here at all.

[Darkborn offline]

...Maybe she had a Birthday? or your friend made a mistake.

[Stonecreek]

It's the lying that's the kicker here. The age thing isn't the biggie. It's the betrayal of trust, right?

[MY85 offline]

And what exactly is your problem? (Can't find the thread you mentioned.) Age shouldn't matter much.

It's here...

[Max Gene offline]

I don't remember what the age difference was, but there must be an explanation- have you asked about it?

[hipster gunfight offline]

Well if you really want to know why she lied to you, you'll have to go and talk to her about it. If i had to guess why i'd say she lied cause she isn't sure about her feelings for you, she think's that you've gotten to be to good of a friend that she couldn't be you're friend again if you two broke up, or she's just not ready to date? i maybe wrong cause i don't know her but hey just trying to help anyway that i can.

[5188148 offline]

That does kind of bite. Are you going out, now, btw?

I say, not to be insensitive, but to be objective, get over it. Talk to her about it and then leave it, explanation or no. If you really like her, it won't be that hard to get over. I know if my crush lied to me on something (I think) trivial like age I wouldn't care....I know she's older than me, 'cuz I skipped a grade. Hopefully, she knows that, but I don't know how to tell her....

[lyokodude offline]

That does kind of bite. Are you going out, now, btw?

To answer your question no.

It's the lying that's the kicker here. The age thing isn't the biggie. It's the betrayal of trust, right?

yea your right.
hipster gunfight I kinda think that your right at least thats what I think

[YDV offline]

Ohhh. I kinda remember that.. in your thread, you said she was in 9th and you're in 7th. Actually, Kimberly probably just turned 14 recently (in which case she's on the younger side, like me) or she was already 14 and will be turning 15 soon (like most freshmen this year. I won't till Dec.)

So did she say she was older than that or what? I kinda agree with DB. It could've been one of those.

[odd girl offline]

i don't see a problem with that.

[lyokodude offline]

Most of the stuff has cleared out right now she told me she lied to my friend Ivan; so I have decided to ask her out on the 14.