Troublesome Friendships

[Cazamanga offline]

I have this friend who is gay, but she has a girlfriend who is Bi, and her Girlfriend likes me as more then a friend, and i like her, but only as a friend, how do i tell her that without hurting her feelings?, & should i tell my friend about her girlfriend?

[Rail Runner offline]

as her friend, it is your responsibility to let your friend know what is happening...even if she gets upset..she will eventually get over it. at least you would have done the right thing.

[The BB of C offline]

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[Jeremified offline]

/\ Basically.

Just use the ^ symbol.

But back on topic...
ZOMG, that is confusing!! Wow... umm... I have no idea what to say because I'm still trying to figure out all this.

[The BB of C offline]

I was never able to find it

[Jeremified offline]

I was never able to find it

It's above the number 6.

[Rail Runner offline]

I was confused too, but I thought about it, and came up with what I thought was the best solution to the situation. I doubt I could have done any better, the situation is bad enough to begin with.

[mooshie offline]

well things are always delicte in relationships with non-straight friends of the same gender, my advice would be although you shouldn't necessarily rat out your friends girlfriend, you should let her know that you only like her as a friend and that your other friend likes her as more that that, so she should be happy with what she has, to use an off the wall analogy, why go out for a burger when you have steak at home. keep in mind I don't know that much about girl culture much less lesbian and bi culture, so this al based on my knolewdge as a guy which although extensive, is limited to one gender

[Cazamanga offline]

thanks for all the advice everyone, i'll try some of your suggestions, and let you know if they worked.