Love Hurts

[DarkestSoul X21 offline]

Ok, I've been chatting with a girl for almost a year and we fell in love with each other, but I found out she was 10 and I am 14 years old. And I thought I found the one. But now I feel so lonley. If anyone wants to chat here is my yahoo and msn.
MSN: james-starr@hotmail.com
Yahoo: jamesstarr269

[Stonecreek]

Your are 14. If there is a 'one', you don't find them at 14 and know it yet. End of story.

[TB3]

Your are 14. If there is a 'one', you don't find them at 14 and know it yet. End of story.

That's kinda harsh - you get feelings for people at any age (otherwise the hopes and dreams of the UxY, JxA etc. shippers would be groundless) - and though they may not be 'the one', breaking off a relationship can hurt.

The only advice I can say Lyokolover is to go on with your life in the hopes of truly finding 'the one who is just for me' in your own good time.

Best of luck

[Just_Jaine offline]

You cant stay forever with the first person you like. If you did how would you know what your perfect lover would be like. I know rejection is hard, but maybe you two can still be friends. When you grow up you'll realize that you are a better peron for it.

[The BB of C offline]

That, and its rediculous to think you can find 'the one' if you're looking online.

[Odd22 offline]

Your are 14. If there is a 'one', you don't find them at 14 and know it yet. End of story.

I have to Disagree, You can always find the one I maybe not at 2 but at 14 it is likely , but by Im or chat room it is hard to tell that person could be but it is best to try to find the one here around you that you know for sure. i also would like to say since you thought she was the one and she wasnt might prove my point. I had a internet realationship never again will i do it.

[Jeremie Lover offline]

Poor you. I dislike liars so much. This one guy is in love with me. I (on the onther hand) dont

[Paige offline]

4 years.... Not too much a difference if you ask me.

[Stonecreek]

Your are 14. If there is a 'one', you don't find them at 14 and know it yet. End of story.

I have to Disagree shawn, You can always find the one I maybe not at 2 but at 14 it is likely , but by Im or chat room it is hard to tell that person could be but it is best to try to find the one here around you that you know for sure. i also would like to say since you thought she was the one and she wasnt might prove my point. I had a internet realationship never again will i do it.

Who's Shawn? I'm Daniel. Perhaps I was too blunt, but at 14 you have no idea who you truly are yet. I am 22 and still am not fully decided on a lot of things, love being one of them. It's improbable, is all.

[KayLenny#7 offline]

I'll tell you a secret about my cousin: She's almost 15, and her BF is 10! Don't tell her I told you, he's a sweetie pie though. Age ain't nuthin' but a number!

[oddlauren offline]

true, you may not know everything about yourself, but i think you do know what love is. i fell in love at 15. even though i don't think dating someone online is smart, i think you can get to know someone well online.

4 years may not be a big gap, but in this case it is. 10 and 14 year olds are at a different points in their lives.

[GOGOLINIICHAN! offline]

Oh wow. I disagree with so much of this. xD

First of all, I'm 14. And I also have a boyfriend that I met online. This forum (well, originating at TvT as some of us did) to be exact.

I believe I've found true love but then again there are exceptions to everything. Do I think most 14 year olds understand love.. no. Do I think most online relationships are feasible.. no. But they do exist. I think LF is a prime example for both, actually (I'm 14.. Erynn is 13 for goodness sakes.. and there are about three online relationships that I know of on here, counting mine, and as far as I know -know for sure with my own, obviously-, everything is quite good).

Anyway, this isn't about me. To lyokolover, if you really love her, it shouldn't really matter. And no, 4 years is not a lot but at your age it can seem like it. The best advice I can offer you is to still be friends with her and see where it goes. If you really love each other, your friendships will last and possibly become more. If you're not meant to be, something will happen to show you that. But there's no reason you should feel lonely or stop talking to each other.

[Stephen (x1)]

Ok, I've been chatting with a girl for almost a year and we fell in love with each other, but I found out she was 10 and I am 14 years old. And I thought I found the one. But now I feel so lonley. If anyone wants to chat here is my yahoo and msn.
MSN: james-starr@hotmail.com
Yahoo: jamesstarr269

Now I'm mostly agreeing with Linii...but...And trying to get on topic.

Here's the thing I understand what he's saying. To a 14-year-old guy, a 10-year-old girl is a little kid, as compared to us, teenagers. And they are really not ready for these kinds of relationships. Heck, a lot of 14-year-olds aren't even ready..

[Paige offline]

Anyway, this isn't about me. To lyokolover, if you really love her, it shouldn't really matter. And no, 4 years is not a lot but at your age it can seem like it. The best advice I can offer you is to still be friends with her and see where it goes. If you really love each other, your friendships will last and possibly become more. If you're not meant to be, something will happen to show you that. But there's no reason you should feel lonely or stop talking to each other.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

[TaskForceLyoko offline]

4 years.... Not too much a difference if you ask me.

When he's 18, the law says otherwise.

[Ransomed_Heart offline]

Okay...I agree with some of what has been said, and disagree with some of it too.

First off, age should not matter. Love is love under all circumstances. But maturity level does, and that may be where you have a problem. While only four years apart, 10 and 14 have huge maturity gaps. I'm not saying there are no exceptions, nobody come bite my head off because they say I'm sterotyping here. That's just in general, and I can't speak for your situation. I would say considering the fact that you talked to her for a year and just now found out that she is 10 probably means she is pretty mature.

On the issue of you being fourteen...I personally think that teenagers can fall in love, and that their love is just as real as the love between any two adults.

As far as what to do next, I agree with Linii as well. Just keep talking to her as friends.

[MY85 offline]

4 years.... Not too much a difference if you ask me.

When he's 18, the law says otherwise.

Yep... next time, try getting a girl around your age, to avoid pedophilia accusations. And young people won't understand feelings easily at a first instance.

When you get older, feel free to do what Ashton Kutcher did with Demi Moore. Motherburglar... lmao...

[Odd22 offline]

Your are 14. If there is a 'one', you don't find them at 14 and know it yet. End of story.

I have to Disagree shawn, You can always find the one I maybe not at 2 but at 14 it is likely , but by Im or chat room it is hard to tell that person could be but it is best to try to find the one here around you that you know for sure. i also would like to say since you thought she was the one and she wasnt might prove my point. I had a internet realationship never again will i do it.

Who's Shawn? I'm Daniel. Perhaps I was too blunt, but at 14 you have no idea who you truly are yet. I am 22 and still am not fully decided on a lot of things, love being one of them. It's improbable, is all.

that is when you and Darkborn had like the same Icon almost. Confussled

[DarkestSoul X21 offline]

can someone lock this

[Lyokofreak offline]

Im left speechless xD

[Mewberries151]

can someone lock this

Alright. It's your thread after all.

Locking. ^_^