SWEET SIXTEEN RRRRRGGGHHH!

[emoBillâ„¢ offline]

Okay, so I'm having my sweet sixteen party and I seriously need a date. Everyone else is probably going to bring one and I don't want to be the one without a date at my own party. There's no one from school I even remotely like, same with church, and same with neighborhood. My ex is the only cute guy there. Plus the only guy I've really met. (The boys across the street do drugs and stuff.)

Where am I supposed to find a date? I need one before the 31st. It's so frustrating. I can't ask the guy I asked to Homecoming (remember him?) because I don't think he likes me, and if I just asked him to Homecoming and we haven't really talked since then (only flirted a little), it would look weird. What to do, what to do...

Thanks for helping me over and over, you guys. You're really a help. *sighs after venting*

[ccbtimewiz offline]

*sigh*, why date at the age of 15?

[emoBillâ„¢ offline]

BECAUSE. That's why. Because my hormones are raging and the world has told me that's how it should be. If you're going to post it would help to answer the question -.-;

Not that I disagree, because I don't know how it used to be with people waiting until like 17 to date. But srsly.

[Tangent128 offline]

Can't help very much... my sisters always have girl-only sleepovers for their birthday parties... And I can't say people bring dates to birthday parties where I live, either.

Do your friends/family ship you with anyone?

[Gauntlet offline]

*sigh*, why date at the age of 15?

This. I don't like the hormones excuse; it's all puppy love and spit-swapping.


Ask your cousin. Question answered; problem solved.

[emoBillâ„¢ offline]

Ask your cousin. Question answered; problem solved.

My family has been ex-communicated from the rest of my family, so it's just my direct family here.

Do your friends/family ship you with anyone?

No. *looks around* Just Kevin (the Homecoming guy), but he doesn't like me and like I said, I don't wanna look stupid by bringing the same guy to like every single event.

[. offline]

um... F that? you don't need a date.

[emoBillâ„¢ offline]

Well, the thing is, it's kind of a dating thing. I'm putting on the card that they can invite a date, and it's already been planned. IDK, I guess teenage boys wouldn't understand ^^;

lolz.

It's just the kind of thing we do in my school/community. If you go to a party, you have a date xP

[TheAppleFreak]

Meh
Being a teenage boy, I don't understand (fully) the complex and diversely expansive entity of the mind of the average female homo sapien (teenage girl mind), but I can understand the hormone excuse, as I am undergoing it myself.

Idk...
Try scouting around your town/city. Who knows?
I met a cute girl on Friday named Molly, who's from Long Island.

[emoBillâ„¢ offline]

Heheheheheh, I've been walking around at night and there's this one guy that got really close to me on purpose. I haven't seen him clearly (it had been night) but I'm looking for him again. Only problem is that I've never really met him. Idk, I suppose I'll have to look around like you said. I guess I could ask my friend to ask one of her island boys for me lolz.

[Carth]

Heheheheheh, I've been walking around at night and there's this one guy that got really close to me on purpose. I haven't seen him clearly (it had been night) but I'm looking for him again. Only problem is that I've never really met him. Idk, I suppose I'll have to look around like you said. I guess I could ask my friend to ask one of her island boys for me lolz.

No, no no no no! Don't even consider someone that gets close to 15-year-old girls walking around alone at night, be they close to your age or not. It might be even better if you didn't walk around at night at all, but if that's what you do...

As for the date thing in general, I'm in your position right now, actually- Winter Ball's in two weeks, and being at an all-girl's school I do not even remotely know anyone that could be my date. D8 (As much as I would love to bring my boyfriend, he kind of lives three states away.) My advice for you is, don't sweat it. The girls you have invited will likely understand the situation you are in (after all, they are in it as well) and will likely be totally okay with it if you go stag. After all, if it is your party, they're there to see you. ^___^ But if you can find a date through a friend, that's great too.

Happy sweet sixteen, by the way! Mine's in five months. I'm not planning a party, though.

[JesusFreak offline]

Heheheheheh, I've been walking around at night and there's this one guy that got really close to me on purpose. I haven't seen him clearly (it had been night) but I'm looking for him again.

I see four things wrong with this sentence....


On Topic though...

I'm a dude, and I'm turning 16 in March. So...I might actually get a huge gift for my birthday this year.

Okay, SRSLY on topic now....

A) Ask boys. there's a girl at my homeschool group who willfully ignores the fact that I got a girl already (Hold on for a second. I have to grin stupidly for two minutes. There,) who kept inviting me to some"Open House" O.o

B) Don't psyche yourself out. You can ask a boy.

C) Pray. (Gee, could you of guessed I would say that?)

D) Press your leg against the leeg of theboy you want to date. Or flip your hair. That was what managed to bypass my Autisticly useless understanding of girls so that I got the hint ^^

[TheLQ offline]

*sigh*, why date at the age of 15?

OMG. I hate it when people say "you can't date yet, your too young." Let the person make up their own mind about that. It sucks when you've got your eyes on a girl and their parents say their too young. (although in high school thats happening less frequently).

Aelita, their is bound to be many boys in your school. If your school is politically correct, they it'll be 50/50. Just find someone.

[Lyoko SA80 offline]

Love comes and love goes.

It not inportant not having a girl/boyfriend .You don't need to worry about that .Asking aound is a bit OTT but it seem to be working when i do it .

It's in your hands if I was you friend I wounldn't give a S if you had one or not .let alone what ours thing it's you life .and thats that.

if you like to have a boyfriend .then try but don't get work up about it .

[TheAppleFreak]

If ur in the same position I'm in, then just see if there are any dances coming up soon.
You can meet boys that way.
That's how I met Molly.

And I'm turning 15 in a few ( 8 ) months.

[emoBillâ„¢ offline]

No, no no no no! Don't even consider someone that gets close to 15-year-old girls walking around alone at night, be they close to your age or not. It might be even better if you didn't walk around at night at all, but if that's what you do...

lolz, no, I meant he was playing around with some of his friends and then he was running and he took the long way around and ran right past me. Not like he was flirting with me or anything. It was just that he went out of his way to run past me, cuz he didn't have to do that.

I dunno...I don't like walking around in the daytime. Too bright. I'm more of a night kind of girl (aka VAMPIRE xP). But my sister always comes with me and I always have my cellphone and something sharp in my bag lolz.

As for the date thing in general, I'm in your position right now, actually- Winter Ball's in two weeks, and being at an all-girl's school I do not even remotely know anyone that could be my date.

Ooh...tough X_x

Happy sweet sixteen, by the way! Mine's in five months. I'm not planning a party, though.

Happy sweet 16 to you too!

C) Pray. (Gee, could you of guessed I would say that?)

Slightly lolz. Doing so xP

D) Press your leg against the leg of the boy you want to date. Or flip your hair. That was what managed to bypass my Autisticly useless understanding of girls so that I got the hint ^^

You're autistic too? *throws hands in the air* Yay! Except I have Asperger's, so it's not very obvious lolz. Anyway, it might be nice if the boy I wanted to go with actually saw me once in a while...but he goes to a different school. But like I said, I'm going to ask my friend to ask him.

OMG. I hate it when people say "you can't date yet, your too young." Let the person make up their own mind about that.

*shakes head sadly* Yes, true.

Thanks for helping me, guys. I have so many problems and you guys always stick with me. *sniffle* kthxbai.

[JesusFreak offline]

D) Press your leg against the leg of the boy you want to date. Or flip your hair. That was what managed to bypass my Autisticly useless understanding of girls so that I got the hint ^^

You're autistic too? *throws hands in the air* Yay! Except I have Asperger's, so it's not very obvious lolz. Anyway, it might be nice if the boy I wanted to go with actually saw me once in a while...but he goes to a different school. But like I said, I'm going to ask my friend to ask him.

I have Aspergers too, but Autism is more fun to say.


And saying Aspergically instead of Autistically sounds like it has to do with Asperagus.

[Phoenix Wolf offline]

I have auspergers also... When I was little they thought I wasn't gonna make it through school....Well HAHA Look where I am now...I am a College Graduate, boy those guys were sure wrong...

[emoBillâ„¢ offline]

Hahaha, seems like a lot of Aspies like to hang out on forums...maybe it's just our thing xP Yeah, I hate explaining it because no one knows about Asperger's. So...yeah lolz.

It does sound like asparagus, hahaha.

Okay, that was just slightly off-topic

[Jazzy Josh offline]

world has told me that's how it should be

Not everything the world says is right.