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Lani wrote:Eh, in the end, people (real or cartoon) are naked and having a good time. What's wrong with that?
Numbuh 7 wrote:I appreciate all the support, but I kinda need help; seriously. I need a solution. I have no one else to go to. My cousin is great, but she doesn't know anything on this topic. You guys are really all I've got as of now and if you can't help me, then I'm just stuck. And it'd be lovely if a few more people responded considering there are so many views!
Always have been; don't know how to be anything else.Linii-chan wrote:BE YOURSELF
Numbuh 7 wrote:
Well, you will be glad to know that my mom is planning to disconnect the computer for good this week.
KingCheez wrote:DON'T be yourself. Be what the "in" crowd wants you to be
Yeah! Don't leave!Shi_Min_Xi wrote:Numbuh 7 wrote:
Well, you will be glad to know that my mom is planning to disconnect the computer for good this week.
Oh no! Why?
KingCheez wrote:DON'T be yourself. Be what the "in" crowd wants you to be, then meet someone who has a lot of the same interests as you, but not so many that you'll never be more than best friends of opposite genders, and be like, "Oh yeah! I love that (tv show, video game, illegal substance,) you do too!? Awesome!"
Numbuh 7 wrote:Always have been; don't know how to be anything else.Linii-chan wrote:BE YOURSELF
I know everyone is stressing me not to rush it. But I'm in a point in life where I just need someone that will be there for me and make me feel loved; like I matter and have a place and all that stuffs. Waiting is exactly what is making me so edgy and cranky anymore. I don't know if "myself" is quite good enough at this stage in life.
Oh goodie: another vote for lame-o. I feel so loved. Well, you will be glad to know that my mom is planning to disconnect the computer for good this week.
Numbuh 7 wrote:I have that dumb ability to pick up a person's vibe and almost flawlessly see their general personality within a short period of time.
Linii-chan wrote:Numbuh 7 wrote:I appreciate all the support, but I kinda need help; seriously. I need a solution. I have no one else to go to. My cousin is great, but she doesn't know anything on this topic. You guys are really all I've got as of now and if you can't help me, then I'm just stuck. And it'd be lovely if a few more people responded considering there are so many views!
Numbuh, the good news is you're normal.
And the bad news.. well, I wouldn't call it bad news, but it may disappoint you, is that.. there's not really much you can do. It's just a phase of life. All girls (and even many boys) go through it.
I had a similar story to yours last year (in 8th grade). I really liked this boy Mark. He was hot, mature.. everything. I just.. I seriously REALLY liked him. But he was a huge flirt too, just like with one of the guys you described. And although he flirted with me a ton, he also flirted with other girls. However, due to the force of my infatuation with him.. somehow the other flirts seemed insignificant and all the flirts with me seemed definite, that he really liked me.
The resolution to my story was that he broke my heart. Some.. not-so-nice girls that liked him constantly made fun of me, he went along with them, and I cried.. many many times. But now I'm over him and I have a wonderful boyfriend.
Yours may or may not work out the same way. Just remember that there's nothing wrong with you: it's just part of life. But some tips are: don't listen to the gossip if it happens, there's nothing wrong with you liking this boy and enjoying him flirting with you, no matter how mean of things they say; and to try and flirt back without expecting anything. If you're too obvious, chances are he'll shy away. But if you act casual and BE YOURSELF, maybe he'll like the challenge and try to flirt with you more. Just have fun; don't expect a serious relationship. ^^
KingCheez wrote:DON'T be yourself. Be what the "in" crowd wants you to be, then meet someone who has a lot of the same interests as you, but not so many that you'll never be more than best friends of opposite genders, and be like, "Oh yeah! I love that (tv show, video game, illegal substance,) you do too!? Awesome!"
KingCheez wrote:DON'T be yourself. Be what the "in" crowd wants you to be, then meet someone who has a lot of the same interests as you, but not so many that you'll never be more than best friends of opposite genders, and be like, "Oh yeah! I love that (tv show, video game, illegal substance,) you do too!? Awesome!"
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