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Love. Oh how it fills my heart with dread.

Postby KayLenny#7 » Mon Mar 06, 2006 11:21 pm

I don't know what is up, but it's like I can't even walk straight without getting a crush on another guy. I have that dumb ability to pick up a person's vibe and almost flawlessly see their general personality within a short period of time. It gets so hard because there are so many really great guys out there and I don't know how to weed them out!

I get all frustrated and start feeling sorry for myself and whatnot because as many of them as I like, none of the keepers (and virtually no one else either) like me back. Sometimes I think they do, but then I find out that they don't. Like WTC? I always push away potential friends because I'm so open about guys that they get annoyed and/or freaked out that they don't bother with me!

Does anyone know how I can overcome this besides "getting out more"?
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Postby Jeremified » Mon Mar 06, 2006 11:56 pm

This makes you... normal.
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Postby KayLenny#7 » Mon Mar 06, 2006 11:57 pm

Oh thank you! I was begining to think that no one would post! *total glomp*
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Postby Odd675 » Tue Mar 07, 2006 12:17 am

Jeremified wrote:This makes you... normal.


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Postby MY85 » Tue Mar 07, 2006 12:21 am

I think I've hugged you at Linii's thread, but I'll hug you again. *hug... friendly, straight hug*

Calm down a bit. Don't let yor emotions drive you totally crazy. Sometimes love can wait... it can be 1 day, 1 week, a month, a year... 'til the time before marriage... who knows?

Try not getting crushes on many persons at the same. And not all guys are used to love yet at your age... it's a matter of time.

I don't know if I'm helping you, but if I do, let me know.
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Postby Shi_Min_Xi » Tue Mar 07, 2006 12:41 am

Agreed with Rodri. Before you reveal that you like someone, you should take the time to really know if they might like you back or not. A good thing would be to be friendly with the person in question and talk on a daily basis and go from there...

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Postby Ransomed_Heart » Tue Mar 07, 2006 7:41 am

You're very normal hon, don't worry. *hug*

I would say what Rodri said. Love is a weird thing, sometimes it just comes to you without you having to do anything at all besides wait. Just focus on being friends with guys, and they come come to see what an awesome girl you are! ^_^
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Postby KayLenny#7 » Tue Mar 07, 2006 7:47 am

LOL, you guys are funny. I'd never straight up tell guy I like him! XD I always try to make friend with them. But, it doesn't work so well; I'm not a people-person except for with certain people... -_-'

I'm in a good position with like one of my crushes, but he is a huge flirt and is the same with most girls. Blah.

And you guys do help, really. Although, it's not like I just decide if I want to like someone or not; I just do.

And WTF? If you're going to vote for lame-o, at least post why you voted it!
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Postby TB3 » Tue Mar 07, 2006 8:16 am

*hugs and rumples hair* Like the guys say Numbah 7, you're a normal girl - love doesn't have to come so soon in if. My parents didn't marry until my dad was in his mid thirties and as a result they had some of the most exciting lives posible (both went round the world for example) - live your life to the full before the commitments of a relationship.

But keep your eyes open for that hunk who might just like you back. ;)
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Postby codeTONY » Tue Mar 07, 2006 7:05 pm

I'm there with you... love can be so cOnFuSiNg. I just had a seemingly soap-opera like event, I moved away from my girlfriend. UGH it was so hard on me, but now we're having a long distance relationship. I still don't know if I should stay with her, or move on, it always seemed like true love.
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Postby KayLenny#7 » Tue Mar 07, 2006 8:38 pm

I appreciate all the support, but I kinda need help; seriously. I need a solution. I have no one else to go to. My cousin is great, but she doesn't know anything on this topic. You guys are really all I've got as of now and if you can't help me, then I'm just stuck. And it'd be lovely if a few more people responded considering there are so many views!
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Postby emoBillâ„¢ » Tue Mar 07, 2006 9:58 pm

I do that too...I think it's normal XD
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Postby GOGOLINIICHAN! » Tue Mar 07, 2006 10:56 pm

Numbuh 7 wrote:I appreciate all the support, but I kinda need help; seriously. I need a solution. I have no one else to go to. My cousin is great, but she doesn't know anything on this topic. You guys are really all I've got as of now and if you can't help me, then I'm just stuck. And it'd be lovely if a few more people responded considering there are so many views!

Numbuh, the good news is you're normal. :)

And the bad news.. well, I wouldn't call it bad news, but it may disappoint you, is that.. there's not really much you can do. It's just a phase of life. All girls (and even many boys) go through it.

I had a similar story to yours last year (in 8th grade). I really liked this boy Mark. He was hot, mature.. everything. I just.. I seriously REALLY liked him. But he was a huge flirt too, just like with one of the guys you described. And although he flirted with me a ton, he also flirted with other girls. However, due to the force of my infatuation with him.. somehow the other flirts seemed insignificant and all the flirts with me seemed definite, that he really liked me.

The resolution to my story was that he broke my heart. Some.. not-so-nice girls that liked him constantly made fun of me, he went along with them, and I cried.. many many times. But now I'm over him and I have a wonderful boyfriend. <3

Yours may or may not work out the same way. Just remember that there's nothing wrong with you: it's just part of life. But some tips are: don't listen to the gossip if it happens, there's nothing wrong with you liking this boy and enjoying him flirting with you, no matter how mean of things they say; and to try and flirt back without expecting anything. If you're too obvious, chances are he'll shy away. But if you act casual and BE YOURSELF, maybe he'll like the challenge and try to flirt with you more. Just have fun; don't expect a serious relationship. ^^
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Postby KayLenny#7 » Tue Mar 07, 2006 11:56 pm

Linii-chan wrote:BE YOURSELF
Always have been; don't know how to be anything else.

I know everyone is stressing me not to rush it. But I'm in a point in life where I just need someone that will be there for me and make me feel loved; like I matter and have a place and all that stuffs. Waiting is exactly what is making me so edgy and cranky anymore. I don't know if "myself" is quite good enough at this stage in life.

Oh goodie: another vote for lame-o. I feel so loved. Well, you will be glad to know that my mom is planning to disconnect the computer for good this week.
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Postby Shi_Min_Xi » Wed Mar 08, 2006 12:02 am

Numbuh 7 wrote:
Well, you will be glad to know that my mom is planning to disconnect the computer for good this week.


Oh no! Why?
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Postby KingCheez » Wed Mar 08, 2006 12:05 am

DON'T be yourself. Be what the "in" crowd wants you to be, then meet someone who has a lot of the same interests as you, but not so many that you'll never be more than best friends of opposite genders, and be like, "Oh yeah! I love that (tv show, video game, illegal substance,) you do too!? Awesome!"
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Postby Shi_Min_Xi » Wed Mar 08, 2006 12:07 am

KingCheez wrote:DON'T be yourself. Be what the "in" crowd wants you to be


From personal experience (and the fact that all the "in" crowds were stupid...). This is not smart. If you're trying to get someone to like/love you, then you have to be yourself so they can like you for who you are, not for what you pretend to be. What would happen if they liked you for who you pretended to be. You first of all wouldn't feel good about it and second if they find out, I get the feeling the realtionship won't end happily...
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Postby codeTONY » Wed Mar 08, 2006 12:08 am

Shi_Min_Xi wrote:
Numbuh 7 wrote:
Well, you will be glad to know that my mom is planning to disconnect the computer for good this week.


Oh no! Why?
Yeah! Don't leave!
KingCheez wrote:DON'T be yourself. Be what the "in" crowd wants you to be, then meet someone who has a lot of the same interests as you, but not so many that you'll never be more than best friends of opposite genders, and be like, "Oh yeah! I love that (tv show, video game, illegal substance,) you do too!? Awesome!"

I don't agree. Being yourself is liked by alot more guys (you may not agree) but, try to relate to more people. That I agree on, because when you have more in common with someone, the more they'll like you. Be open.
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Postby GOGOLINIICHAN! » Wed Mar 08, 2006 12:21 am

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Linii-chan wrote:BE YOURSELF
Always have been; don't know how to be anything else.

I know everyone is stressing me not to rush it. But I'm in a point in life where I just need someone that will be there for me and make me feel loved; like I matter and have a place and all that stuffs. Waiting is exactly what is making me so edgy and cranky anymore. I don't know if "myself" is quite good enough at this stage in life.

Oh goodie: another vote for lame-o. I feel so loved. Well, you will be glad to know that my mom is planning to disconnect the computer for good this week.

I totally understand how you feel; like I said, I was exactly like this last year. But yourself is ALWAYS more than enough. Think what would happen if you pretended to be someone else? You would attract all of the guys with the wrong traits because they'd be going after the fake you, and you wouldn't get anyone that you were truly compatible with.

And only YOU can make yourself feel loved. Loving yourself can only be done by yourself. Honestly, the best thing for you to do is just keep being yourself and eventually someone will come along that is perfect for you. I know it sucks not having a boyfriend, especially when your heart is with someone that doesn't like you back, but you can't do anything about it. Have faith that everything happens for a reason and before you know it things will be as you want them to be.
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Postby Demonkiller » Wed Mar 08, 2006 1:30 am

Numbuh 7 wrote:I have that dumb ability to pick up a person's vibe and almost flawlessly see their general personality within a short period of time.


I have that ability too, I think it's cool! :D I've gotten to the point that if two people are feeling the same way, they look exactly alike to me.

It's perfectly normal to be like that. I too, am slightly like that. It just amazes me how much problems people have in New Mexico, so that's why I try to avoid it, if at all possible.
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Postby Saphire-089 » Wed Mar 08, 2006 9:21 pm

Beleive me, you're completely normal in my book. I go through the same things. :)
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Postby Jeremified » Wed Mar 08, 2006 11:00 pm

Starlight wrote:Beleive me, you're completely normal in my book. I go through the same things. :)
On certain occasions, I can relate.
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Postby The BB of C » Thu Mar 09, 2006 9:52 am

Linii-chan wrote:
Numbuh 7 wrote:I appreciate all the support, but I kinda need help; seriously. I need a solution. I have no one else to go to. My cousin is great, but she doesn't know anything on this topic. You guys are really all I've got as of now and if you can't help me, then I'm just stuck. And it'd be lovely if a few more people responded considering there are so many views!

Numbuh, the good news is you're normal. :)

And the bad news.. well, I wouldn't call it bad news, but it may disappoint you, is that.. there's not really much you can do. It's just a phase of life. All girls (and even many boys) go through it.

I had a similar story to yours last year (in 8th grade). I really liked this boy Mark. He was hot, mature.. everything. I just.. I seriously REALLY liked him. But he was a huge flirt too, just like with one of the guys you described. And although he flirted with me a ton, he also flirted with other girls. However, due to the force of my infatuation with him.. somehow the other flirts seemed insignificant and all the flirts with me seemed definite, that he really liked me.

The resolution to my story was that he broke my heart. Some.. not-so-nice girls that liked him constantly made fun of me, he went along with them, and I cried.. many many times. But now I'm over him and I have a wonderful boyfriend. <3

Yours may or may not work out the same way. Just remember that there's nothing wrong with you: it's just part of life. But some tips are: don't listen to the gossip if it happens, there's nothing wrong with you liking this boy and enjoying him flirting with you, no matter how mean of things they say; and to try and flirt back without expecting anything. If you're too obvious, chances are he'll shy away. But if you act casual and BE YOURSELF, maybe he'll like the challenge and try to flirt with you more. Just have fun; don't expect a serious relationship. ^^


Thank you very much. You just saved me about two days of insense thinking and not knowing what to do. That is exactly what I have been trying to pull out of the back of my head the past few days for you, Numbuh.
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Postby oddlauren » Thu Mar 09, 2006 11:40 am

KingCheez wrote:DON'T be yourself. Be what the "in" crowd wants you to be, then meet someone who has a lot of the same interests as you, but not so many that you'll never be more than best friends of opposite genders, and be like, "Oh yeah! I love that (tv show, video game, illegal substance,) you do too!? Awesome!"


I'm not sure about you, but i can usually tell right away when someone is being "fake", and it's a huge turn-off. if someone is in the "in" crowd, they may not stick out and attract guys they may want as a bf/gf.

Numbuh 7- you're normal. I still tend to fall for guys right away. Pretty much every cute guy i start to like. :*D i haven't had a bf in a while, but yea, it's annoying. I'm almost 20, and still do this. im sure every guy/girl has gone through this. a lot of them anyway.

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Postby The BB of C » Thu Mar 09, 2006 12:02 pm

KingCheez wrote:DON'T be yourself. Be what the "in" crowd wants you to be, then meet someone who has a lot of the same interests as you, but not so many that you'll never be more than best friends of opposite genders, and be like, "Oh yeah! I love that (tv show, video game, illegal substance,) you do too!? Awesome!"


That's another good point. Put this together with the other person I quoted earlier and stick with it, with the combination of the advice I gave you a couple months back, you'll be set!
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