my brother....

[Jade offline]

my brother is so mean to me, and he's only 9! he calls me names, and punches me. i always get a 'stern talking to' from my rents, or get sent to my room because of HIM!!!! i need some advice!! he is so aggrivating!!!

[The BB of C offline]

I had the same problem for a while. If you're parents won't listen to you, then in order to stop it, you'll have to dicipline your brother yourself. Remind him of natural order and that you're the one above, not him. By the looks of things, you will take a harsh punishment for it, but it will be worth it in the end.

[KayLenny#7 offline]

Um. Maybe if you be really nice to him (like buy him ice cream cones or something), he might be nice back. If not, have a nice long talk to your parents. *shrugs*

[Jade offline]

i guess i COULD play yu-gi-oh with him and watch him play gamcube even though i could care less.....

[The BB of C offline]

Post back if that works because I have never seen that work.

[KayLenny#7 offline]

It works, I've seen it in action twice. When my cousin's little adopitve cousin was being an annoying brat, she played Yugioh with him and he's been nice since.

[Jade offline]

yeah, playing yu-gi-oh never works because he has 232 cards and i only have 93 and HE doesn't use life points, so he plays it 'whoever runs out of cards first loses!' yeah....really fair....

[KayLenny#7 offline]

Oh yeah, I can see that!

You: Well look at that! You won again! Yay! *twitch*
Your brother: Again?
You: I'd rather not...
Your brother: *ctarts to cry* MOOOOOOOOOOOM!!!

[Jade offline]

he plays stupid games on the gamecube that i don't care for and he goes, "Emily!!! Emily!!!! Come here!!!! Emily!!!! Look at this!!!! This is soooooo coool!!! Emily!!! Emily!!!!"

[Jade offline]

well, he doesn't do that, but it's close...he does some thing about doing two cards on one turn, a monster card and magic card, and when i do that he goes, "YOU CAN'T DO THAT!!!!" and then i say, "You did it!" then he starts yelling and i pick up my cards and he calls me a cheater and liar. so fun, huh?

[Lyoko SA80 offline]

Don't be upset as I have a brother how and bit older at 12 and me 16 a big age gap .When I was your age my brother would do the same if I remember right I listen to music (Runrig)that help and then he stop for a bit but start if hegetting now you neves join in have a laugh that what I do it my be stuoied but it helps tell you brother your true feels

[MY85 offline]

aou, chill down. Don't double post. Follow the spelling rules, please?

As for your brother, you could try disciplining him yourself... or do it the hard way: ignore him. Or you can beat him up. Learn how to use your enviroment.

Or talk with your parents about it.

[emoBillâ„¢ offline]

Talking with your parents doesn't work...sadly...

Anyways, play whatever he wants, be nice to him, etc. Ignore him when you can, like if he wants to play Yu-Gi-Oh...meh, play with him unless you're doing something. If you're doing something, tell him you will do it later, when you finish what you're doing.

That's what I do to my brother ^^ he is 8 and I am 13 so it's almost the same!

And if you get sent to your room again, then serve the punishment and ask to talk to your parents when you're done. Tell them about your problem.

[. offline]

You can do what my older sis did to me back in the day... Beat him up lol

[emoBillâ„¢ offline]

But if she can't hurt her brother, then how is she supposed to beat him up?

[. offline]

Pay someone to do it?

[Rory offline]

I hate to make this convo depressing but..
You should make up with him, and cherish your brother... because you never know when something could happen to him...
I know what losing a brother feels like. Beating him up will just make things worse, sit down and talk to him, I wish I could have known my brother more.

[coffee offline]

If my brother is buging me i just put him in the closet and lock it

[emoBillâ„¢ offline]

If my brother is buging me i just put him in the closet and lock it

ZOMG! LOL....

[Chosen_one offline]

How old is your brother?
Based on what I know about the average American little kid, if he's old enough to read, he's probably old enough to start respecting other people and know that he is not the only one in the world who gets annoyed. Your parents probably believe that your brother is too young to be mature.

[Jade offline]

he's nine. he is starting to go to a phscatrist (as you can tell-i'm not in the spelling challenge group) he's been grumpy and yelling at my mom. he threw a tantrum yesterday because he forgot his lunch box at school. (it wasn't a tantrum excatly-he just started crying waterfalls) he beats himself up for the littilest things. he's been really quiet lately, and i'm scared...really scared. i love him so much, it's just that-well, i can't deal with him. i worry about him too much. like the time we were at the ymca swimming pool, i cared more about him drowning then me. i couldn't live i lost him, and it's just that he gets on my nerve, being so annoying sometimes, but, it's like, "i can't live with him, can't live without him"

[Ulrich Stern. offline]

he's nine. he is starting to go to a phscatrist (as you can tell-i'm not in the spelling challenge group) he's been grumpy and yelling at my mom. he threw a tantrum yesterday because he forgot his lunch box at school. (it wasn't a tantrum excatly-he just started crying waterfalls) he beats himself up for the littilest things. he's been really quiet lately, and i'm scared...really scared. i love him so much, it's just that-well, i can't deal with him. i worry about him too much. like the time we were at the ymca swimming pool, i cared more about him drowning then me. i couldn't live i lost him, and it's just that he gets on my nerve, being so annoying sometimes, but, it's like, "i can't live with him, can't live without him"

Let me guess, there's something erresitabolish about him? LOL It's good to know you still care for your brother even thought he can drive you crazy. Don't worry, it won't last forever. He will eventually grow out of doing those things.

[Chosen_one offline]

he's nine. he is starting to go to a phscatrist (as you can tell-i'm not in the spelling challenge group) he's been grumpy and yelling at my mom. he threw a tantrum yesterday because he forgot his lunch box at school. (it wasn't a tantrum excatly-he just started crying waterfalls) he beats himself up for the littilest things. he's been really quiet lately, and i'm scared...really scared. i love him so much, it's just that-well, i can't deal with him. i worry about him too much. like the time we were at the ymca swimming pool, i cared more about him drowning then me. i couldn't live i lost him, and it's just that he gets on my nerve, being so annoying sometimes, but, it's like, "i can't live with him, can't live without him"

A psychiatrist may be a good thing to do... let's just hope it works.

[Demonkiller offline]

Good dang. Okay, that kids like, confused. I would suggest showing him that you are bigger, stronger, and can take him down easily. He probably thinks that he'll have your parents on his side.

He's just trying to achieve power and he can't get it, but he still tries.