Friends

[Jeremie Lover offline]

ok listen. At school I'm left out. I spend most of my time on the PC which is the only friend I have. Yea I know lame. Also people call me bad names I mean BAD names like Sl*t Who*e B*tch. I told on them but I still feel like I dont belong. Due to that, my docter says i'm getting Ill from all the depression and if I don't perk up I'll get so Ill i'll have to be hospitalized.

Im so alone

What should I do?

[TB3]

ok listen. At school I'm left out. I spend most of my time on the PC which is the only friend I have. Yea I know lame. Also people call me bad names I mean BAD names like Sl*t Who*e B*tch. I told on them but I still feel like I dont belong. Due to that, my docter says i'm getting Ill from all the depression and if I don't perk up I'll get so Ill i'll have to be hospitalized.

Im so alone

What should I do?

*Hugs*

You're never alone - we count you as our friend - and I know how it feels to be ostracised - I promise you that you'll pull through.

And people like that don't even deserve the time of day - is there anyone at all you could strike up a friendship with?

Best of luck and if ever you need someone to talk too, feel free to PM me.

[The BB of C offline]

I can empathise with the way you feel. Though looking for support online can be helpful, it doesn't always last, and it won't solve your problem. My suggestion, forget the PC and forget everyone at school making fun of you. Those things they say: They should mean nothing to you. Why? Because they don't know you. And they're winning if you let them bother you.
I would seriously suggest getting off the computer for a while, and looking for friends at school. That is the only way you can really solve this problem.

[Jeremie Lover offline]

*Hugs*

You're never alone - we count you as our friend - and I know how it feels to be ostracised - I promise you that you'll pull through.

And people like that don't even deserve the time of day - is there anyone at all you could strike up a friendship with?

Best of luck and if ever you need someone to talk too, feel free to PM me

Sadly no. Im werid to other people *cusses people out in French*

thanks for being my friend ^_^

[The BB of C offline]

Yeah...cussing at other people in French. Might want to kick that. Also, if you know that you're weird to/around other people, you should be able to change it yourself.

[Ulrich Stern. offline]

Wow, you never told me this before. I thought you said last week that you were going ice skating with your friends? I don't know what to say. I have some of the same problems here, but they only extend as far as one of my classes. I wish I could help more. I'm sure you can find a lot of good friends somewhere around you, sometimes their in the same boat you are and are the silent types in the room. I'm not really suggesting that because they're not always nice either. Just remember to smile everyday.

Two roads divereged in a yellow wood, and I - I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.

Robert Frost

[Jeremie Lover offline]

Wow, you never told me this before. I thought you said last week that you were going ice skating with your friends? I don't know what to say. I have some of the same problems here, but they only extend as far as one of my classes. I wish I could help more. I'm sure you can find a lot of good friends somewhere around you, sometimes their in the same boat you are and are the silent types in the room. I'm not really suggesting that because they're not always nice either. Just remember to smile everyday.

Two roads divereged in a yellow wood, and I - I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.

Robert Frost

I did go skateing with friends, but they rekected me ^_^ isn't that grand? Well im gonna change :D

[TB3]

You shouldn't have to change who you are in order to get friends - people should respect and like you for who you are, not a front.

Self-improvement is a different thing though.

And I'm more than happy to be your friend ^_^

[Taelia offline]

As am I. I'd love to be your buddy.

[Paige offline]

Make friends with the black kids. They will always protect you. Trust me, I know from experience! I sometimes wish I was black.... And NO! I am not being racist! It really does work!

[Jeremie Lover offline]

Make friends with the black kids. They will always protect you. Trust me, I know from experience! I sometimes wish I was black.... And NO! I am not being racist! It really does work!

1) Please, I hate the word "Black" reffered to a person. Say Afircan American.

2) There Ramby (meaning there crazy)

[Paige offline]

1) Please, I hate the word "Black" reffered to a person. Say Afircan American.

Okay fine. Brown. And it is African American. And what if the brown people aren't African? They could be.... European or South American. So I don't want to group them into one continent. So I'll just stick to the term Brown. Oh and, I have plenty of Brown friends and they couldn't care less if you call them black.

[The BB of C offline]

You shouldn't have to change who you are in order to get friends - people should respect and like you for who you are, not a front.

Self-improvement is a different thing though.

And I'm more than happy to be your friend ^_^

Only in private schools does that even come close to happening. The truth is that we all need to change if we want respect. But only to a certain degree. Otherwise you're libal to become what you hate and be just as miserable as ever. The road you're going down, Sissy Delmas Lover is a long and complicated one. I'm not sure anyone can explain it to you over the internet.
And Paige is exactly right in the previous post. I have six friends that are dark. One is flat out black. Another is half Puerter-Rican. Neither of them or the other four care if I call them black. In fact, this is funny, on occasion we even make racial jokes back and fourth to each other.

[Hidushikai offline]

though i hate to say it b**** blaster cannon up there is right. you need to get yourself some real freaking friends.

[TB3]

though i hate to say it b**** blaster cannon up there is right. you need to get yourself some real freaking friends.

Your hardly very tactful in how you say it though (same for BB of C) - the girl is wearing her heart on her sleeve so please be a bit more gentle with her - right now you both come across as very blunt - kay?

And Hidushikai please watch your phrasing as it can seem agressive (and bordering on language not allowed here) - yes I know you've said you're not a nice person but please treat others here with respect, especially if they're younger than you.

Also I've always thought the idea of the Rant board was to offer comfort, small tips and friendship, not actual life-changing advice, because then you run the risk of worsening the person's life as you're not familiar with their situation - misinterpretation is very easy and then we run the risk of getting a member into serious trouble and possibly hurt.

[Hidushikai offline]

though i hate to say it b**** blaster cannon up there is right. you need to get yourself some real freaking friends.

Your hardly very tactful in how you say it though (same for BB of C) - the girl is wearing her heart on her sleeve so please be a bit more gentle with her - right now you both come across as very blunt - kay?

Also I've always thought the idea of the Rant board to offer comfort and friendship, not actual life-changing advice, because then you run the risk of worsening the person's situation as you're not familiar with their situation - misinterpretation is very easy and then we run the risk of getting a member into serious trouble.

much better approach this time
youre going to find this hard to believe but thats exactly what we do. we just have different methods of doing this. ive lived completely normal but around people like this all of the time. the bb of c used to be just like this and he got himself out. we do come across blunt and we know. but it has yet to fail in the long run. through all the cross and unkind things we seem to say its all pure as it gets. we are here for you all.
most of you wont understand a single thing we say. but later when youve listened to everyone else and nothings worked and youre desperate. then you suddenly find yourself thinking about what we said. everything comes to you. you know exactly what to do. then you do it.
both individually and together him and i have taken on almost every situation listed in this rant section. weve turned the uncontrolably angry into the incredibly loving. weve turned the depressed to no extent to the incredibly happy. weve turned the most socially impared people that arent legally retarded and turned them into some of the most popular people around. that may seem like were controlling people. but no. they all said that they saw it themselves after we showed them to you. and damn......this is getting too deep for me im starting to loose myself. PM and talk to BB if you have anything else to say.

[TB3]

much better approach this time
youre going to find this hard to believe but thats exactly what we do. we just have different methods of doing this. ive lived completely normal but around people like this all of the time. the bb of c used to be just like this and he got himself out. we do come across blunt and we know. but it has yet to fail in the long run. through all the cross and unkind things we seem to say its all pure as it gets. we are here for you all.
most of you wont understand a single thing we say. but later when youve listened to everyone else and nothings worked and youre desperate. then you suddenly find yourself thinking about what we said. everything comes to you. you know exactly what to do. then you do it.
both individually and together him and i have taken on almost every situation listed in this rant section. weve turned the uncontrolably angry into the incredibly loving. weve turned the depressed to no extent to the incredibly happy. weve turned the most socially impared people that arent legally retarded and turned them into some of the most popular people around. that may seem like were controlling people. but no. they all said that they saw it themselves after we showed them to you. and damn......this is getting too deep for me im starting to loose myself. PM and talk to BB if you have anything else to say.

You're hardly modest are you in claiming you've helped every person on this board? And please put in gaps between paragraphs - I'm burning my eyes out with the block of text you put up.

[Jeremie Lover offline]

though i hate to say it b**** blaster cannon up there is right. you need to get yourself some real freaking friends.

Let me warn you people I know tend to disappear ^_^ Back off please. Thanks

[KayLenny#7 offline]

You are my clone because we have the same problem. 'Kay? 'Kay.

[Just_Jaine offline]

Oh Sissi Delmas Lover, I’m your friend. I know what you mean about feeling lift out, like no one understands you. I mean I have friends, but I can’t tell them about my feelings. I bet they only know 25% of me. The only place I am really open is on the net so I can see how the computers your best friend. My advice would be to make a friend. I’m sure there is someone else in your school who feels left out too. And teachers can be your friends also. Don’t try to change who you are to try to get someone to like who you really are, because then you wont end up liking who you are.

[Jeremie Lover offline]

Oh Sissi Delmas Lover, I’m your friend. I know what you mean about feeling lift out, like no one understands you. I mean I have friends, but I can’t tell them about my feelings. I bet they only know 25% of me. The only place I am really open is on the net so I can see how the computers your best friend. My advice would be to make a friend. I’m sure there is someone else in your school who feels left out too. And teachers can be your friends also. Don’t try to change who you are to try to get someone to like who you really are, because then you wont end up liking who you are.

*hugs* *starts to cry* Thanks Jaine and All *Slow sad music plays*

[YDV offline]

Aww, it's okay! I really feel like that sometimes. But yeah, we're all here for you.

....BBOfC. You do NOT have to change to have friends, because most likely they wouldn't be true friends anyway.

Someone who calls you when you're sick.

Someone who talks to you rather than abandoning you for someone "cooler."

Someone who likes you for who you are.

I'm sure you'll find someone like that one day, SDL, because after all you don't really need a whole bunch of friends-- just one best friend is enough. (...Do I sound like I'm speaking from experience? Cuz I'm not. My life sucks. lol)

[Jeremie Lover offline]

Aww, it's okay! I really feel like that sometimes. But yeah, we're all here for you.

....BBOfC. You do NOT have to change to have friends, because most likely they wouldn't be true friends anyway.

Someone who calls you when you're sick.

Someone who talks to you rather than abandoning you for someone "cooler."

Someone who likes you for who you are.

I'm sure you'll find someone like that one day, SDL, because after all you don't really need a whole bunch of friends-- just one best friend is enough. (...Do I sound like I'm speaking from experience? Cuz I'm not. My life sucks. lol)

LoL. That reminds me of a episode of Oprah I saw. She's so cool ^_^

[YDV offline]

....Cool! I'm an Oprah-wannabe!

Do you think I'll be one of the richest females in the country? ...Oh, wait.

*sorry, off-topicness..*

[Star Way]

Okay, I'm going to delete the posts here that are off-topic. I don't see why Sissy Delmas Lover's thread should have to be locked just because of a little spat like this one.

All further discussion related to the argument here may continue via PM or other means of private conversation if need be. Anymore of it here, and people may be banned.