Peeps in my class

[sweetness101 offline]

My friend and I are going to this catholic high school next year, and this girl that I really hate , she wants to go too. now, I know what you are thinking, how is this a problem but the thing is we used to be friends and when i transfered schools she followed me and ruined my reputation there. I think she is going to do it again. what should I do?

[Stephen (x1)]

How does she find out where you go to school at?

[sweetness101 offline]

Well, we used to go to the same school and I think she has connections at the school I go to now.

[5188148 offline]

Do you know of the financial status of this individual? If she wants to go to a Catholic school, but can't afford it, then your problem is solved, not to sound uncaring.

Otherwise, ask your guardian if you have to go to the school, unless you actually want to (can't see it, personally, Sacred Heart of Jesus was the worst experience of my life). Or, just, when you get there, build up a circle of friends and get them to like you enough that whatever she says won't affect them.

[sweetness101 offline]

finacial aid

thats how i'm going there

and thankz i'll keep that in mind

[sweetness101 offline]

thnx yall you guys are like family

[TaskForceLyoko offline]

Quit being reactive and take action. Ruin her reputation first when you get there.

If that's not your cup of tea, keep in mind that high schools are a bigger pond than where you are presently. The diversity of attitudes and cliques are greater, making reputations a lesser issue as far as the entire student body is concerned. Gain new friends, good ones, and disregard rumors and innuendoes from others. You can't stop it, and real friends wouldn't care about those things.

[Ulrich Stern. offline]

Quit being reactive and take action. Ruin her reputation first when you get there.

If that's not your cup of tea, keep in mind that high schools are a bigger pond than where you are presently. The diversity of attitudes and cliques are greater, making reputations a lesser issue as far as the entire student body is concerned. Gain new friends, good ones, and disregard rumors and innuendoes from others. You can't stop it, and real friends wouldn't care about those things.

Hit the nail on the head. People in Highschool are to busy to throw rumors and stuff around. At least until about half way through the year. By the time I'm sure you will have tons of friends that will have gotten to know the real you. They won't care about her rumors then because they'll know you too well.